As of June 26, 2018 there has been no Republican response (to my letter which follows) with a platform or policy from either the Republican National Committee or the NY State Republican Committee, any Republican Candidate for statewide office, nor any action during the 2018 legislative cycle from either major party.
January 30, 2018
Chairman Edward F. Cox, NYS Republican Committee, 315 State St. Albany, NY 12210
Dear Chairman,
A simple question from this registered Republican; At what point will NY Republican candidates realize that pandering to Democratic votes doesn’t result in Republican Candidate victories? I put forth as an example of this the loss of the NYS Senate majority these past 10 years. This question is not new as I have asked it for 15 years now, it goes all the way back to Rick Lazio running against the carpetbagger Clinton and Gillibrand’s rise in NY politics first as Congresswoman.
I personally worked with legislators on the Family Court Reform Act (currently http://nyassembly.gov/leg/?bn=A06054&term=2017) which was originally introduced by Jay Dinga and then carried by Bob Prentiss (my Assemblyman, at our request). As Brian Kolb took over sponsorship of this legislation when I noted he was running for governor I immediately began to lobby men’s rights/father rights/parental rights organizations (MRA/FRA/PRA) to support him. Then the Assembly Minority Report on DV came out and the question was why we should support a candidate who puts forth anti male propaganda such as this? When I brought up sponsorship of the reform act I was asked what had the Republican’s actually delivered for us these past 20 years? I had no answer for indeed the answer to the question is they have achieved nothing for us.
Years back, in my lobbying for MRA’s, etc. I had the opportunity to meet with Lazio and his people in his run for US Senate against Clinton. In discussing support of his campaign it was stated we had to support them, “after all what are you guys going to do, vote for Clinton”. I expect that mentality resulted in zero support for him. Congressman Sweeney had put forth anti male federal alimony legislation. We met with his staff and Saratoga County Republican leaders and got the same response, even when he was challenged by Gillibrand they stated, “What are you going to do, vote for her”? This time public support for the Democrat was given, the dismissiveness enough to drive votes to her, and cost him the re-election. Ironically we had asked him to modify domestic violence legislation for protections for the accused (often falsely) and it was his failure to act which contributed to his loss under the shadow of mere allegations.
Political party enrollments within the ranks of the men, fathers, women, and families who suffer the injustices of this anti family court system mirror statewide enrollments. Given the large enrollment edge of the Democrats it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that Republican’s need to pull a large portion of not only independent voters, but also democrats to make any headway into returning Republican’s to power in NYS, especially in a statewide election. These disenfranchised dads, moms, and families are a prime target for votes, yet not only do Republicans not go after disenfranchised Democrats, they disenfranchise their base, registered Republican voters like me who were beat dead, driven broke, and disenfranchised by the system. If local, state, and national Republicans wish to garner the votes and support of these disenfranchised Republican, Democrat, and Independent voters you need to not only take policy positions which address these injustices, but actually achieve some level of reform.
The portrayal and treatment of men as if they are “deadbeats” and “abusers” of women and children has got to stop if you expect any support from MRA/FRA/PRA groups. The Parental Rights of BOTH parents needs to be protected (which also protects the rights of the child and is also in their best interest). Domestic violence programs need to be reformed to serve ALL victims of domestic violence, including men. The rights of individuals accused need to be protected with equal application of laws and due process. False allegations need to be addressed and in those instances where it rises to perjury and false statements on the record the violators prosecuted.
Many of these problems are driven by federal monetary incentives such as Title IVd of the Social Security Act (More HERE) and the denial of Parental Rights through government double speak (More HERE). By labelling “non custodial” parents at the state level to increase the perverse financial incentives under the act the label is then used as a basis to deny parental rights guaranteed under the U.S. Constitution. The $1 Billion a year funding of the Violence Against “Women” Act based on the Duluth Model is nothing more than financing of liberal policies regarding families which is detrimental to Republican’s. There is, however, much the state can do to lessen these violations of parental rights which are destroying families. By supporting policy changes and passing legislation supporting families, parents, and equality for individuals at the state level Republican’s can expect to increase their support from these disenfranchised people.
I have enclosed a few items in support of these positions and can provide further discussion and/or information on request:
- Bill memo for A06054 The Family Court reform Act,
- Letter to President trump in support of reform to Title IVd of the Social Security Act,
- Discussion and text for the Parental Rights and Responsibilities Act,
- NY Men’s Action Network blog regarding the lack of political support for men in NY,
- “Duluth Model Buries Key Facts on DV”, by Erin Pizzy (founder of the first refuge in the world for DV victims).
I thank you for your time in this matter and look forward to working with you in the future for Fathers and Families.
Sincerely yours,
Lt. James Hays, (Ret.)
CC: RNC; Ronna McDaniel, Bob Paduchik, NYGOP Staff; John Burnett, Jason Weingartner, Pierry Benjamin, Oliver Tan, Marie Mclam, Jim Thompson.